Meaning of commitment:
Who knows commitment
better than a sports person, an athlete, a chief, a mother, etc. it is a
promise that holds two things together it could be for a soldier with their country
or cricketer to their fans.
What does
commitment mean in a relationship, is not an easy question to answer because having a
commitment to a love relationship is difficult sometimes it depends on the type
of relationship and thoughts the two-person shares? It is not a job, it is a
feeling and dedication towards each other, it could be for a month, a year or
till death, one could not claim anything about love. Anyone loving you today
may not surely love you for the lifetime it depends on situation and time so
commitment on the basis of love would not be right.
Love, commitment or
marriage:
Many people think that
love is more important than commitment, some do not promise to live life
together but love each other so deeply ended having lifetime relation, on the
other hand there are people having god promises of being with each other
lifelong but ends relationship after sometime,
once they stop feeling spark in each other.
Love has a different
definition in every heart, some people say, marriage is love but they are
wrong, marriage means commitment which comes with responsibility not love,
commitment is only been successful if it stands on the pillars of love that
holds the relation tightly.
As it is also said to
love is not enough for everything, anyhow promises and words are important
because it has some beliefs in itself. People going for shopping ask for the
written specification for any product no one believes in spoken words or nobody
feels the love immediately.
Love overcommitment:
What do you call a relationship without commitment,
a bond that bounded by love? Seems that love is essential not commitment
because it comes automatically when two people love each other deeply if not
then it could be any misunderstanding, not any mis-happening because Pure love
never dies and afraid of anything. Commitment should not be treated as a
warranty of a relationship; it is made on the ground of love not commitment.
Love always comes first it initiate any relation but in Indian marriages,
commitment comes first that’s why many relations have to face difficult times
and maybe having a divorce or ended up by domestic crimes, external affairs,
office relation, etc.
Feeling giddy in your
stomach is the first symbol of love, it could not be controlled. Loves make you
realize the feeling of forgiveness, humanity, charity, respect. One of the
biggest challenges during any relation when one needs the commitment to
continue and other do not prefer to give that, it does not mean they do not
love each but they are just scared of losing each other and they believe that
promising makes their relationship strong and powerful but it actually breaks.
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